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Rasulullah saw. bersabda, “Perumpamaan orang beriman itu bagaikan lebah. Ia makan yang bersih, mengeluarkan sesuatu yang bersih, hinggap di tempat yang bersih dan tidak merusak atau mematahkan (yang dihinggapinya).” (Ahmad, Al-Hakim, dan Al-Bazzar)

Seorang mukmin adalah manusia yang memiliki sifat-sifat unggul. Sifat-sifat itu membuatnya memiliki keistimewaan dibandingkan dengan manusia lain. Sehingga di mana pun dia berada, kemana pun dia pergi, apa yang dia lakukan, peran dan tugas apa pun yang dia emban akan selalu membawa manfaat dan maslahat bagi manusia lain. Maka jadilah dia orang yang seperti dijelaskan Rasulullah saw., “Manusia paling baik adalah yang paling banyak memberikan manfaat bagi manusia lain.”

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salam 'alayk dari pj..

ampun dan maaf saya dahului kerana sudah lama tidak mengisi ruangan yang ada di blog ini. saya sudah pun meletakkan nama baru di blog ini, cuma saya masih perlukan pandangan anda sekalian. saya juga telah mengambil sedikit masa untuk mencari latar yang baru, tetapi nampaknya, tiada yang bersesuaian. maka, saya inginkan pertolongan daripada beberapa pihak yang pakar dalam menambahbaikkan blog ini.

dan untuk pengetahuan, peperiksaan pertengahan semester saya akan tiba dalam masa kurang satu minggu. jadi, kesibukan saya sememangnya akan bertambah.

apa yang perlu anda lakukan:

1. berikan pandangan tentang nama baru ini.
2. cadangkan latar yang menarik dan laman sesawang latar berkenaan bolehlah ditunjukkan kepada saudari kamilah.
3. minta kepada saudara hidayat supaya dapat menyumbangkan gambar2 sekolah yang menarik untuk dilengkapkan dalam blog ini.
4. [senarai seterusnya akan saya cuba tambahkan dari masa ke masa]

sekian.

Tazkirah

This post was taken from http://sigmoidlife.blogspot.com

About jannah, paradise, heaven, syurga..
from Dr Aini Afifah binti Abdul Karim

When Mu'min will enter into Jannah, it will be announced
1. You will remain healthy forever, disease will never come.
2. You will remain alive for ever, death will never come.
3. You will remain in bounties which will never be finished.

Jannat is made with Bricks of Gold and Silver.
Its cement is of perfumed Musk. Its chips are pearls and Yaqoot.
Its sand is Zafraan.

There are eight doors ofJannah.
These are eight grades of Jannat
1. Jannatul Mava
2. Darul Maqaam
3. Darul Salaam
4. Darul Khuld
5. Jannat-ul-Adan
6. Jannat-ul-Naeem
7. Jannat-ul-Kasif
8. Jannat-ul-Firdous

Food of Jannah
They will eat foods and fruits continuously up to 40 years.
Every bowl will have a new taste. They will take eructation which will digest the food and there will be perfumed sweating for the digestion of water. There will be no urine and stool.

There will be gardens in Jannah. Every garden will have the length of about 100 year's journey. The shadow of these gardens will be very dense. Their plants will be free of thorns.The size of their leaves will be equal to ears of elephants. Their fruits will be hanging in rows.

Jannatul Mava is in the lowest, Jannat-ul-Adan is the middle & Jannat-ul- Firdous is on the highest.

Those who love each other for the sake of Allah will get a pillar of Yaqoot, On which there will be seventy thousand (70,000) rooms. These will shine for the residents of Jannah as the sun shines for the residents of Duniya.

There will be rooms in Jannah in such a way that every room will have seventy thousand (70,000) dinning sheets. On every dinning sheet 70,000 types of foods will be served. For their service 80,000 young boys will be moving around looking like beautiful scattered pearls.

One bunch of dates will be equal to the length of 12 arms. The size of a date will be equal to the big pitcher. These will be whiter than milk, sweeter than honey and softer than butter and free Of seeds. The stem of these plants will be made up of gold and silver.There will also be gardens of grapes. The bunches of grapes will be very big. The size of a single grape will be equal to a big pitcher.

Someone asked, ya Rasulullah (Sallalahu Alaihi wasallam): will it be sufficient for me and my family. It was answered, it will be sufficient for you and your whole tribe.

The Dresses of Jannah
The dress of Jannah will be very beautiful. One will wear 70 dresses at a time. These will be very fine, delicate, weightless, having different colors. These dresses will be so fine that the body even the heart will be visible.
And the waves of love in the hearts will also be visible.These dresses will never become old, never be dirty and will never tear.

There will be four canals in every Jannah.
1. Water
2. Milk
3. Honey
4. Sharabun Tahoora.

There will also be three fountains in Jannah:
1. Kafoor
2. Zanjabeel
3. Tasneem

Qualities of People of Jannah:
In Jannah, height of every Mo 'min, will be equal to the height of Hazrat Adam (Alaihissalaam) 60 arms (90 feet).

Beauty will be like that of Hazrat Yousuf (Alaihissalaam)

Age of youth will be like that of Hazrat Esa (Alaihissalaam) 30-33 years

Sweetness of voice will be like that of Hazrat Dawud (Alaihissalaam)

Tolerance will be like that of Hazrat Yaqoob (Alaihissalaam)

Patience will be like that of Hazrat Ayyub (Alaihissalaam)

Habits will be like that of Sayyaduna Muhammad (Sallalahu alaihi wasallam)

NOTE: If a person makes Du'a for Jannah three times, Jannah requests to Allah that ‘O, Allah; make his entry into Jannah’.And if a person makes Du'a for safety from Jahannum three times, The Jahannnum requests to Allah that, ‘O, Allah; save him from Jahannum’.

Do feel free to link this post or copy and paste this post and spread this wonderful message towards all our brothers and sisters.

To whoever this concerns

Kepada siapa-siapa warga Farisian yang ada personal blog bolehlah 'promotenya' di sini.

Saya punya: http://nanas-world.blogspot.com

Kalau ada masa, bolehlah kami sama-sama berkunjung untuk mengeratkan hubungan dalam kalangan komuniti blogger Farisian yang semakin berkembang ini.

=)

mana lagi contributer lain punye post?

al-fitnatu asyaddu min al-qatla

"I'm sick of being followed
I'm tired of people lying
Saying what they want about me
Why can't they back up off me
Why can't they let me live
I'm gonna do it my way
Take this for just what it is"
-Lindsay Lohan, Rumors-

Ever got your inbox full of forwarded messages that also request you to forward the message if not something bad will happen to you? Or have you been wondering why you have always been the victim of gossips, like Lindsay Lohan? Here's the answer why.

There's this article on why rumors persist written by Taylor Clark. He calls it 'The 8 1/2 Laws Of Rumor-Mongering'. An interesting read really, since it is applicable to any hman being of any race, of any religion of any walk of life.

A summary of the laws are:
1. Successful rumours needle our anxieties and emotions
Example: once at my school, people were spreading the rumor of a 'devil phone call'. Here's how it goes, a strange telephone number (more than 12 digits long) turns up on your phone display, when the person picks up the receiver, the person hears a mantra being read and the person drops dead on the spot, frothing at the mouth-going mad?
As a result, the whole girls dormitories went hysterical, crying over the phone, warning their family members of this epidemic.
Conclusion: rumors that involve our own and our loved ones' safety usually spread fast, because people tend to want to take precautions of such too-close-for-comfort dangers.

2. Rumors stick if they're somewhat surprising but still fit with our existing biases.
Example: a rumor about a usually 'conterversial' person saying something that is kind of absurd, but somehow plausible for us to believe because all this while we have 'suspicions' of the person's nature. These rumors stick because they 'click' with what we already believe or want to believe, especially about a person.

3. Easily swayed people are more important than influential people in passing on a rumor.
Why? It's because gullible people buy into the rumor more easily and are more likely and willing to spread the rumor because they believe in it. Example, kids, that's why they easily buy into Grandma's ghost stories of 'momok' and bogeymen. Although, the status and respect that a person earns, might help convince the people they tell.

4. The more you hear a rumor, the more likely you are to believe it.
Practice Makes Perfect. Repetition is the key to memory. Those who study the human brain must very well know of how memory works. The repetition of certain information might actually 'reinforce' the memory and make the details more vivid and famliar. Hence, we remember it better. When the person encounters a new information, the brain recalls the old memory and links it to the new one, and voi'la, the rumor seems to grow more plausible. You may not believe the rumor, but if the rumor has been going around for quite awhile, you tend to think twice. What if it's true? Many people have been saying it that way. It's like you went to three different doctors for a second opinion on your diagnosis, and they all say the same thing. How can you not believe in it?

5. Rumors reflect the Zeitgeist.
The word zeitgeist describes the intellectual, cultural, ethical and political climate, ambiance and moral of an era or also a trend- definition by Wikipedia.
When an issue has long been pondered in the society, and bingo, one day, there came a rumor that confirms the suspicion, what is there not to believe?

6. Sticky rumours are simple and concrete.
Basically, rumors consist of simple information, idiot-proof and easily understood by the general community.

7. Rumors that last are difficult to prove.
Some of the rumors can be so subjective and behind the scenes, that you simply give up trying to disprove of the fact and accept it in defeat. Ever caught yourself saying, "wallahualam"? If you're a muslim, that is.

8. We are eager to believe bad things about people we envy.
This is the sort of rumor that usually plagues Hollywood stars, and builds the foundation for most scoop in the gossip column. (Then again, the 'perangai' of that person always makes us readily accept the rumor about that person whether it is the truth or not because we already know beforehand of how the person will react and are able to make our own 'predictions' of what's to come. The moral here is to be on your good behavior at all times.)
The German term for such psychological condition is 'schadenfreude' that means, taking joy in other people's sufferings. Human beings can be compassionate and cruel. Sometimes, it is considered as entertainment to see other people suffer, especially of those that we have already disliked in the first place.

9. The Ninth Law.
Other reasons that people spread rumors is to prove that they are knowledgable. They already have 'the big scoop' even before any people does. Perhaps, it could be the reason to prove one's prowess in spinning stories. Well, people love a good story sometimes.

The conclusion from this post:
>Avoid rumors at all cost, even if it is in our nature to enjoy them.
>When we have company, well, there is a tendency to spread rumors, so it's better off being alone, but then, human beings do need friends.
>Be careful in what you believe. It is never wrong to question a fact, just to be sure.

For muslims, al-fitnatu asyaddu min al-qatla. Gossiping, rumors= fitnah. The sin of fitnah is worse than murder. A fellow muslim must not be ill towards his fellow muslim brothers and sisters.

So, take good care of yourselves and avoid even listening to rumors and especially spreading them.

This is merely a reminder to all, and to myself as well, as no human being is exempted from any fault.

Today, at my place is a very Rainy Raya Haji. It has been raining the whole day. So, SELAMAT HARI RAYA EIDUL ADHA to all muslims.